WhAt Is ReaL AboUt TheM ?

Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pemurah Lagi Maha Penyayang. . .

Assalamualaikum. . .

Hi everyone ! It looks like a month or more I have not post any new entry. Hee , maybe it because of assignments or  actually I really , really , really lazy to tip tap on my laptop. Yeah , there is a lot of ideas and story to tell you guys about  but I just keep it in mind. Maybe after this there will be another and another new post from me. :P

Before that , I realize the examination is around the corner. Only two weeks more I have to go to classes and tutorials.  Then , study weeks and finally I have get to prepared myself on war ! Huge war ! Hopefully , I get a better outcomes than  before. . Pray for me guys.  :)

Okay , so now I want to tell you about something that wandering on my mind. Look at the title. What is real about  them ? What do you think about it ? Who are them ? And what reality that I want to tell you ?

Confusing ? Dizzy ? Irritating. . ? =_=

Try to look around us. There are many people who differ each other. You and I too. Everybody is different and have their  own ways and also style , behaviour , etc. .

Let me begin with a story. .

One man was confused by a woman who had stole his heart. He was really mad and irritated to that woman. Why ?  Because his girl ran away with another man. Ouch , it really gave him a big scar.  He thought that his ex - girl would not  do that but unfortunately she is gone. Say goodbye to her. .

What he said about his ex - girl ?

 

  " The first time I saw her , I thought she is a good girl. Definitely good in my eyes. No doubt about it. She is wearing hijab. Her attitude is good for me although she is not like the other woman who know deeply in Islam but I think she is better on the way she is. I do not know much about her but I sure she is what I have been looking for. When time pass by , I discover something about her. I am not have enough knowledge about Islam and I thought both of us would completing each other. She could teach me and so do I. . "

 " One day , I saw her with another man. I do not think much. Maybe it could be

            her friend because we were in different faculty. I starting to feel that between me and her , there is some gap. I do not know. I just feel that she is not her. Her reaction to me , her way to talk , her message is not the same I feel before. But I am just keep that thing a side because maybe she need some space and time. Yeah , sometimes we were fighting. She mad at me , she yell at me , she send a message that hurt my heart. Okay , I bear with it. Someday , or day by day , we could be better. As a man , I do not want to make it worse and be  patient. . "

" Do I look pathetic when I just let her be like that ? I am not try to controlling her. I know we do not have any tie. . Only couple but she is my girl. I do not want to see her hanging out with her friends without me. She might has another boy out there although I think she would do that to me. You know why ? Because people like her who is wearing hijab and cares about 'aurat' and so on could be someone who has royalty , sincere , not lie. . Hmm , that is my way of think. My opinion about people like that. I do not know much about religion okay. . "

      " A man like me do not deserve to have a good soulmate ? Yeah , you are right. I am jerk. I am terrible because my knowledge about Islam is low and social - boy who live in a big city. Always clubbing and do not do what religion had asked. But the truth is I want someone who good and better than me as my soulmate. I do not want a woman who is terrible like me. Never. But in the end , I had been rejected , I had been cheated by her. Ouh man ! I really shocked about this matter. Should we  called as 'karma' ? "

" She said that she cannot continue our relationship because she likes another man in her faculty. When I asked her who that man , she said I do not have to know. Okay , it makes me suffocated for a long time. I knew it. It is really him who was with my ex - girl that day. I gave my all to her but what she was not. Can I think that people like her just a joke ? She just good in the eyes but not in the heart. Fooled me with her appearance. Just cut off her 'good' if she want to be bad. Okay , I am sorry but I kind of losing direction. Which path should I go ? Maybe a woman who do not hide her 'aurat' is much better. . They are good although they are not wearing hijab. . "

So , what can we conclude about this story ? Oops , before that what we can say about this story ? This is not a criticism story. Not a gender story. Not a bias story and so on. This is what we can say about todays world.

 A woman who obeys Islam and who is not. Same goes for man. I am not mention only for woman but also man.

Actually , the truth is people who definitely good is not only good on their appearance but also good on their attitude or 'akhlak'. People who disobey Islam will make it clear that they actually bad or not good. I want to say 'evil' but that is too much. . I could be the one of the evil person too. .

Do you understand ?

No ? Okay , I will explain more. :)

As example , a woman who is wearing 'tudung labuh' and 'baju kurung'. Or we can say a woman who is completely hide their 'aurat'. Wearing stoking , wearing 'sarung lengan'. What can we describe about them ? Good or bad ? Of course we will choose good because we think they absolutely have a good behaviour and have a deep knowledge about Islam. But there are some of us will say not everyone who covering their 'aurat' and wearing hijab and so on is really , really , really has a good attitude or 'akhlak'. Why ? They did what religion asked to do but why you would say such thing ?

What about woman who do not wearing hijab and do not cover their 'aurat' ? What can we describe about them ? Good or bad ? Could you say bad ? Or good ? Why ? We may say that not everyone who do not covering their 'aurat' is bad because they have a good attitude and behaviour too. But , why can they hide their 'aurat' and obey Islam ?

Jeng , jeng , jeng. . .

Here is the question mark. . Could you think ?

There are two part. First , obligation or duty to covering their 'aurat'. Second , obligation or duty to have a good 'akhlak' and behaviour.

First category : People who obey Islam and have a good behaviour.

This is the best part because they have a good 'akhlak' and covering their 'aurat'. This is what we should do and have.  :)

Second category : People who have a good behaviour but do not covering their 'aurat'.

They are good in the part of 'akhlak' but not in duty to covering their 'aurat'.

Third category : People who complete their obligation to covering their 'aurat' but have a bad 'akhlak' and behaviour.

They know what Islam want they to do. Have a good knowledge in Islam and covering their 'aurat' but not completing their duty to have a good 'akhlak'.

Truth :

The people in the second category are good. Really good but they should cover their 'aurat'. When they have hide their 'aurat' , they are in the first category. But , we cannot think bad about them. They actually try to change , try to face many challengers out there. They need time. Time to changes. They need strength. Strength to changes to be a good muslim or muslimah. They need someone who could guide them to light. Maybe they are not really good in religion's knowledge. Good people like them , one day will be a new person. Allah will help them too. Definitely.

Good people will be good people. Good in 'akhlak' and good in appearance. Even though they are not covering their 'aurat' before this but finally they will because Allah know everything and He promised them.  :)

The people in the third category are in the red ink. They loss something. They lost their good behaviour and 'akhlak'. But not all of them are really bad. They have completing their duty on 'aurat'. They only should have a good 'akhlak'. They should try to improve their good behaviour. They also need time. They also need someone to bring them to better path. Day by day , they will have a good one. 'Istiqamah' to do a good thing and be patient. When we always do that , we can make it easy. InsyaAllah , Allah always be with us. He is Most Merciful. He is Most Loving. He loves all of his servant. . Trust me.  :)

The people who is bad will show their badness. Even though they hide it in their appearance. Bad people will be bad people. Before this , they covering their 'aurat' but someday their covers will show up. It will not everlasting. It will fade due time being. They will not wearing hijab , not wearing suitable clothes and so on. Allah knows what in our heart. Angels know what we do too. They write down what we have done. The bad and the good one.

As we know and see now. . My friends too. When in school , they are wearing hijab but out of school. . They are not. In addition , when the schools end. Everyone want to show their beauty to others. Wearing skirt , short , baby Tshirt and the clothes that shows everything.

If we shows our 'aurat' , what will we save and keep for ourselves and our wife or husband ?

Zero. 0. Nothing my dear. .

So , it is not only woman but both. We should have a good 'akhlak' and good appearance. Suitable with what Islam had asked and what Allah asked.

It is not late to changes. Change to be better but not change to be bitter. .  :)

Same goes for me. I am also try to improve my 'akhlak'. This is reminder to myself and to you guys.

Walkie - talkie : Better late than never. .

p/s : saje nak sepeking - sepeking. . cett  :P 

ReVisiOn AnD ApPliCatiOn

Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pemurah Lagi Maha Penyayang. . .

Assalamualaikum.. . .



Ada ketika kita berada di ambang kesulitan , apabila musibah dan kesusahan berlaku. Dan pada ketika itu mungkin kita terlepas bicara , tersalah bicara tentang apa yang berlaku. Tanpa kita sedari , mungkin kita banyak kali MENGELUH itu dan ini. Ditambah pula dengan kemarahan yang berada ditahap kemuncak , apa yang dikeluarkan oleh bibir iaitu kata - kata yang berbaur kekesalan , geram , sedih dan serba tak kena mungkin wujud. Pada waktu itu , kita tidak fikir tentang perkara lain sehingga kita terlepas pandang , kita terlupa sebenarnya ada cara untuk menyelesaikan masalah yang dihadapi. 






Dimana kita letakkan ILMU yang ada ? Dimana kita letakkan IMAN ? Dimana kita letakkan KESABARAN ? Dimana kita letakkan KEKUATAN DIRI ? Dimana kita letakkan SYARIAT dan PEGANGAN iaitu agama Islam ? Dimana kita letakan ALLAH TAALA ? Astaghfirullah. . Ya Allah , apakah selama ini aku hanyalah hamba yang sia - sia ?






Itulah sebenarnya yang selalu berlaku. Jika kita telah berada dalam keadaan tenang , barulah kita akan terfikir tentang apa yang berlaku dan apa yang telah kita lakukan. Ketika itu , barulah kita sedar bahawa kita telah melakukan kesalahan , kesilapan yang memalukan diri sendiri dan yang tidak disedari iaitu jika kita ada menyakitkan hati manusia. Apatah lagi pada Allah. Malu pada Allah. Malu kerana kita tidak ingat Dia. Bukan hanya insan - insan diluar sana malah diri ini juga melakukan perkara yang sedemikian. 




Maafkan diri ini kerana diri ini masih lemah dan masih meneruskan kesilapan yang sama. Apa yang ingin dikongsi adalah sebagai peringatan sesama kita.  :)






Allah punya segalanya. Kadang kala apa yang kita harapkan , apa yang kita rancangkan , apa yang kita lakukan tidak menjadi hasil yang kita mahu , Allah lah yang mengetahui sebabnya. Itu bukanlah kosong , bukanlah sia - sia. Allah mahu kita berfikir apa yang tersirat dan bukan hanya yang tersurat. Kita lihat yang tersurat itu pedih tetapi yang tersirat itu penawarnya. Kita tidak akan tahu apa penawarnya sehingga kita sendiri pergi membongkar , mencari dan berfikir. Hikmah itu ada di sebalik setiap kejadian , dan di sebalik setiap ujian mahupun dugaan.








Bagaimana pula dengan sabar ? Bukankah itu perkara utama yang harus dikuatkan ketika menghadapi kesusahan ? Jika kesabaran kita lemah , apa yang bakal berlaku ? Kesabaran itu benteng kepada kemarahan. Kesabaran yang menipis menyebabkan berlakunya permulaan kepada kemarahan. Jika tiada lagi sabar , maka kemarahan merajai keadaan. Kesabaran itu perlu di didik , di terapkan dalam diri setiap insan. Cubalah untuk mengawal kemarahan. Pentingnya sabar dalam kehidupan , bahayanya marah dalam kehidupan. 




Kawan kepada marah itu sentiasa berada dimana - mana. Pencetus kemarahan itu sentiasa bersedia menjirus api - api kemarahan. Siapa ?

 SYAITAN.  :)






Setiap insan itu melakukan kesalahan , melakukan dosa tetapi Allah tetap memaafkan setiap kesalahan itu walaupun kesalahan itu dilakukan berkali - kali. Apakah sebabnya ? Kenapa Allah melakukan ynag sedemikian ? Allah itu Maha Penyayang , Maha Pengampun dan Maha Pengasih. Pintu taubat itu sentiasa terbuka untuk kita kecuali ketika kita berada diambang MAUT.  :)






Ingatlah bahaya kesalahan yang kita lakukan dengan Allah  , pasti Allah ampunkan TETAPI tidak mudah untuk manusia. Kesalahan atau dosa ynag kita lakukan pada manusia tidak semudah yang kita sangkakan. Kemaafan yang kita harapkan daripada manusia bukan seperti membeli barang di kedai runcit. Walaupun kita meminta maaf sebanyak mana , belum tentu manusia akan maafkan kesalahan kita itu dengan sekhlas hati. Sebab itu , kita diingatkan untuk menjaga HUBUNGAN SESAMA MANUSIA. 




Tetapi sebagai hamba Allah , seharusnya kita memaafkan insan yang pernah melakukan kesalahan yang mungkin pada kita , amatlah menyakitkan hati , menghiris hati mahupun makan hati.  :) 



Amatlah baik jika kita menjadi seorang yang pemaaf meskipun mengambil masa untuk memaafkan kerana apabila kita melakukan sedemikian , hati akan menjadi tenang.   :)


Bukankah elok jika kita tingkatkan orang kita sayang dan kurangkan orang yng kita benci ?






Konklusi tentang apa yang cuba disampaikan adalah aplikasi ilmu dalam kehidupan seharian. Tidak kira ilmu yang dipelajari , kita seharusnya amalkan dalam kehidupan. (except for bad knowledge ! )
Lagi - lagi ilmu agama. Mungkin kita terlupa , tapi cuba untuk ingat kembali. Apabila kita selalu aplikasi , selalu amalkan jadi kita akan bertambah ingat pada ilmu itu. Amatlah penting untuk kita meneruskan kehidupan dunia yang bakal berakhir untuk kita mencari KEREDHAAN Allah  bagi meneruskan kehidupan akhirat yang bakal bermula kelak.  :)

Walkie - talkie : kerjasama dan persefahaman dalam kumpulan itu penting bagi memudahkan kerja ynag dilakukan.

p/s : hidung bocor ~ srott , srott , srott. . . (x_x)

MeNcAri KekUatAn

Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pengasih Lagi Maha Penyayang. . .

Assalamualaikum. . .

This is another monologue ( a kind of. .I think )  (=_=)

Nope , nope. .

This is a lyrics of song.

Sing by Sami Yusof , it's title ' Make Me Strong '

Hoping for strength to continue my life in this world. (sounds like scary. .)

Oh Allah , help me ~

* * *

I know I'm waiting

Waiting for something 

Something to happen to me 

But this waiting comes with 

Trials and challenges 

Nothing in life is free 

I wish that somehow 

You'd tell me out aloud 

That on that day I'll be ok

But we'll never know cause 

That's not the way it works 

Help me find my way

 

My Lord show me right from wrong 

Give me light make me strong 

I know the road is long

Make me strong 

Sometimes it just gets too much 

I feel that I've lost touch 

I know the road is long 

Make me strong 

I know I'm waiting 

Yearning for something 

Something known only to me 

This waiting comes with 

Trials and challenges 

Life is one mystery 

I wish that somehow

You'd tell me out aloud 

That on that day you'll forgive me 

But we'll never know cause 

That's not the way it works 

I beg for your mercy 

My Lord show me right from wrong 

Give me light make me strong 

I know the road is long 

Make me strong 

Sometimes it just gets too much 

I feel that I've lost touch 

I know the road is long 

Make me strong 

* * *

Walkie - talkie : Be a man ! If you like her , don't approach her wall (facebook) , but approach her wali ~  :D

p/s : tomorrow i have 2 tests ; philosophy of science and java programming ! wish me luck !  :)